Trauma turns into generational trauma – until resolved

Have you ever wondered why certain events keep on happening: to you, to your family, to a friend, to a colleague? A pattern that keeps repeating, even though you know it’s not helpful? Sometimes we set the same goal or make the same decision or new years resolution, only to realise that we keep repeating… Continue reading Trauma turns into generational trauma – until resolved

The single biggest problem in communication is…

“The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.” George Bernard Shaw Hello, Malcolm here, with my first ChangeMadeReal email. How often do we think we’ve ‘communicated’ only to find that the party we thought we’d communicated with has no recollection of either: the act of communicating; or the contents of… Continue reading The single biggest problem in communication is…

Disrupted routine – or routine disruptions?

Every one of us is affected by this tiny little monster called coronavirus – wondering about our own health, how we protect ourselves, how we protect others.   We’re also subject to our governments making decisions that limit our freedom. Social distancing? Social isolation?  Working from home, social distancing, or self-isolation are typical examples.  Emotions may… Continue reading Disrupted routine – or routine disruptions?